Adult Children of Alcoholics & Dysfunctional Families (ACA) defines a dysfunctional family as one in which emotional safety, consistency, and healthy boundaries were absent or unreliable. In these families, children often grew up adapting to chaos, emotional neglect, addiction, mental illness, or rigid control rather than being supported in developing a secure sense of self. ACA emphasizes that dysfunction is not limited to families affected by alcohol use; it also includes homes where feelings were minimized, needs were unmet, roles were distorted, or authentic expression was unsafe. As a result, many adult children carry survival-based patterns—such as hypervigilance, people-pleasing, emotional withdrawal, or self-criticism—into adulthood, often without recognizing their origins in early family dynamics.
CA Fellowship Text, or “Big Red Book” (BRB), is the core guide for Adult Children of Alcoholics. Written anonymously by members, it adapts AA’s Twelve Steps to address the lasting effects of childhood trauma and dysfunction. The BRB offers hope, understanding, and tools for healing, helping adults overcome harmful survival traits and build healthier relationships.
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