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Sexual Addiction


"In our society, sex can easily become the price many women pay for love and the illusion of security. A woman who seeks a sense of personal power and an escape from pain may use sex and romance as a way to feel in control, just as an alcoholic uses alcohol; but sex never satisfies her longing for love and self-worth. In this wise and compassionate book, Charlotte Kasl shows women how they can learn to experience their sexuality as a source for love and positive power and sex as an expression that honors the soul as well as the body."

 
Out of the Shadows: Understanding Sexual AddictionDon't Call It Love: Recovery From Sexual AddictionIn the Shadows of the Net: Breaking Free of Compulsive Online Sexual Behavior
Out of the Shadows: Understanding Sexual Ad...
by Patrick J. Carnes Ph.D.
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Don't Call It Love: Recovery From Sexual Ad...
by Patrick Carnes
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In the Shadows of the Net: Breaking Free of...
by Patrick J. Carnes Ph.D.
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The Betrayal Bond: Breaking Free of Exploitive RelationshipsSexual Anorexia: Overcoming Sexual Self-HatredContrary to Love: Helping the Sexual Addict
The Betrayal Bond: Breaking Free of Exploit...
by Patrick J. Carnes
$10.96
Sexual Anorexia: Overcoming Sexual Self-Hat...
by Patrick J. Carnes Ph.D.
$11.51
Contrary to Love: Helping the Sexual Addict
by Patrick Carnes
$10.17
Open Hearts: Renewing Relationships with Recovery, Romance & RealityBreaking the Cycle: Free Yourself from Sex Addiction, Porn Obsession, and ShameYour Sexually Addicted Spouse: How Partners Can Cope and Heal
Open Hearts: Renewing Relationships with Re...
by Ph.D. Patrick Carnes
$14.61
Breaking the Cycle: Free Yourself from Sex ...
by George Collins MA
$12.21
Your Sexually Addicted Spouse: How Partners...
by Barbara Steffens
$10.17

Mending a Shattered Heart: A Guide for Partners of Sex AddictsRecovery Zone, Vol. 1: Making Changes that Last - The Internal TasksRecovery Zone, Volume 2: Achieving Balance in Your Life: The External Tasks
Mending a Shattered Heart: A Guide for Part...
$13.57
Recovery Zone, Vol. 1: Making Changes that ...
by Patrick J. Carnes
$19.77
Recovery Zone, Volume 2: Achieving Balance ...
by Ph.D. Patrick Carnes
$18.21

Women, Sex, and Addiction: A Search for Love and PowerSex and Love Addicts Anonymous: The Basic Text for The Augustine FellowshipThe Intimacy Factor: The Ground Rules for Overcoming the Obstacles to Truth, Respect, and Lasting Love
Women, Sex, and Addiction: A Search for Lov...
by Charlotte S. Kasl
$9.78
Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous: The Basic T...
by The Augustine Fellowship

The Intimacy Factor: The Ground Rules for O...
by Pia Mellody
$10.87
Sex Addicts AnonymousA Couple's Guide to Sexual Addiction: A Step-by-Step Plan to Rebuild Trust and Restore IntimacyFalse Intimacy: Understanding the Struggle of Sexual Addiction (LifeChange)
Sex Addicts Anonymous
by Sex Addicts Anonymous
$9.34
A Couple's Guide to Sexual Addiction: A Ste...
by Paldrom Collins
$10.17
False Intimacy: Understanding the Struggle ...
by Harry Schaumburg
$11.55

 
Surviving Infidelity: Making Decisions, Recovering from the Pain, 3rd EditionUnfaithful: Rebuilding Trust After InfidelityUnfaithful: Hope and Healing After Infidelity
Surviving Infidelity: Making Decisions, Rec...
by Rona B. Subotnik
$8.75
Unfaithful: Rebuilding Trust After Infidelity
by Gary Shriver

Unfaithful: Hope and Healing After Infidelity
by Gary Shriver
$9.88
Love, Infidelity, and Sexual Addiction: A Codependent's Perspective- Including Cybersex Addiction
Love, Infidelity, and Sexual Addiction: A C...
by Christine A. Adams

SEXUAL ADDICTION

  1. We admitted that we were powerless over lust—that our lives had become unmanageable.
  2. Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.
  3. Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him.
  • (Conservative program) For the married sexaholic, sexual sobriety means having no form of sex with self or with persons other than the spouse.



  1. Step 1. We admitted we were powerless over addictive sexual behavior - that our lives had become unmanageable.
  2. Step 2. Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.
  3. Step 3. Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood God. (no pronouns)
  • To help us define our sexual sobriety, many of us use a tool developed within SAA called The Three Circles. We draw three concentric circles, consisting of an inner, middle, and outer circle. With the help of our sponsor or others in recovery, we write down various behaviors in each of the three circles. In the inner circle we put the sexual behaviors we want to abstain from, the ones we consider “acting out.”

  1. Step 1. We admitted we were powerless over sexual compulsion — that our lives had become unmanageable.
  2. Step 2. Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.
  3. Step 3. Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood God. (no pronouns)


  1. Step 1. We admitted we were powerless over sex and love addiction - that our lives had become unmanageable. 
  2. Step 2. Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity. 
  3. Step 3. Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood God. (no pronouns)
  1. Step 1. We admitted we were powerless over our sexual obsessions—that our lives had become unmanageable.
  2. Step 2. Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.
  3. Step 3. Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood God. (no pronouns)

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